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THE CROSSROAD

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Cross Road in this context is reaching a point in life at which you are expected to make a critical decision about what to do next i.e. whether to quit or not, move forward or backward. In this kind of situation, we must be intentional about making the right decisions because at the end , we will all be responsible for the aftermath result of our Decisions. Choice is an Act of choosing from multiple options. Freedom of choice is generally cherished , where as a severely limited or artificially restricted choice can lead to discomfort with choosing and possibly an unsatisfactory outcome. In contrast, a choice with excessively numerous options may lead to confusion, reduced satisfaction , regret of the alternatives not taken and indifference in an unstructured existence. At some point in Life , we just have to be ready to make a definite choice amongst several options that keeps dragging our attention. It's so hard "cracking the nut " to reach a point of Decision making. We...

VALUE CREATION

In a world full of diverse talents , gifting and skills, always choose to stand out to showcase your Unique Potentials. There are two Distinct words "Value" and "Creation". In simple dictionary meaning ,Value means a shared idea about how something is ranked in terms of desirability , worth of goodness while Creation simply means producing or bringing something into existence. In this context , I will like to bring to limelight practical ways of harnessing our unique potentials as relating to value creation. Harnessing your unique potentials involves putting into workable use your abilities, gifting and innate capacity to provide solution to problems in our society. Nowadays , we can discover that our skills set can quickly pave way for us most times. It's important especially as young minds to develop that ability or skill set with the aim of positively impacting our society. We all know that it can be easy for us to easily complain about the unfair experiences...

BROKEN HOME

Home signifies a family bonded by blood, love, and trust. It could be a combination of all three factors or just one. However, for the sake of eloquence, let’s stick to the traditional family—a unit bonded by blood. A Family is the cornerstone of our Society. In pre-modern societies alike, it has been seen as the most basic unit of social organisation, and one that carries out the vital task of providing and protecting a Home. A Home in its dictionary form is a permanent residence for an individual or group, especially as a member of a family or household. However, a home also signifies a unit of persons who are bonded by blood, Love, Trust and Respect, which spurs out from the central point of Agreement and Understanding. It is most times connected to a Family. It constitutes a bond of peace, comfort, unconditional love and warmth. This indicates that a Home is not just a "Place of Dwelling" in itself, but a deep connection of hearts and minds of a family bonded in unity. Ma...

ABORTION. "The Bloody Act"

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Abortion is the removal of an embryo or fetus from the uterus resulting to it's death. This can occur spontaneously or be artifically induced through chemical, surgical or other means. Commonly, Abortion refers to a procedure induced at any point of pregnancy. Medically, it is defined as an instigated termination of pregnancy before twenty weeks of gestation, whenever the fetus is considered to be nonviable. However, in our Society, the term "Abortion" has been branded as an "escape route"and sadly people in our society have consented to this act with the intention of easing off the tension of the victim which will later result to negative effects that ranges from psychological, physical, emotional and otherwise. However, this is a wrong notion because the complications that results out of an abortion is very dangerous. It's important we take a dual approach on this subject matter in order not to be misinterpreted. It's primarily observed in ou...

THE CHURCH

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What is a Church? The church as a “Term” has different meaning based on the ideology individuals in the Society has framed i to be, but it’s important we describe the church according to the scripture because God’s word is our template as Christians and therefore we must be able to present to the world, the true definition of the church from God’s perspective. However, we will state the notion or view some persons in our present world has described the church in order to be able to know how to correct any misguided ideology about the church. The Church is commonly described as a building designed specifically for the gathering of Christians to render worship to God. It is basically seen as a sacred building constructed for a particular purpose which must not be defaulted. In relation to this description, it shows that the church in this sense is seen as a “building” physically constructed to accommodate individuals who come to render their worship and offerings to God. In as mu...

DEALING WITH WRETCHED HABITS AND ADDICTIONS

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There are vicious behavioural conducts in our societies that happen as a result of bad habits and wrong addictions. And it has immensely endangered the lives of many youths and this has to be identified and tackled headlong First of all, we should understand that Habit is a subconscious program installed in the subconscious mind of an individual. It is also a brain and a nervous system activity. It could be positive or negative. A habit is formed by REPETITION. Once a particular activity is repeated over and over again, it eventually gets to that point where the activity cruises on auto pilot.  *Mechanism of habit creation* The brain and nervous system is connected to our everyday day stimuli. When an activity is carried out on the body, there is a corresponding signal that is sent in the nervous system and this creates a line-like neuro pathway. If the activity is repeated, the line-like neuro pathway that was created becomes thicker. The thicker the line, the harder it becom...